Monday, January 16, 2017

Lazeez Affaire

Our guide took us to Lazeez Affaire for lunch and we had some of the best Indian food of our lives!

I'm glad Kaleb and Noé will eat real food, our 3 little boys will just eat rice and naans, ugh!

Ali will eat real food too, she hasn't got to a picky stage yet, and I hope she never makes it there!

Some yummy condiments (I love the green sauce).  What I'm really loving here is all of the stainless steel dishes, I think I need to get some!

Tandoori chicken I adore you!

This time we ordered chicken, paneer (my most favorite in India- roasted soft cheese cubes), and aloo (potato) to go with our rice and naans.  They didn't have our favorite, dal makhani (black lentils and cream).  I could be a vegetarian if I could have dal makhani every day!

Nirula Handicrafts Bazar

Another thing that was not on our itinerary was that our daily guides would each take us to a handicrafts bazaar.  The Nirula Handicrafts Bazar specializes in "Persian" style silk, hand-woven rugs made in Kashmir.

Be warned:  They are GOOD salesmen!  I had always wanted one of these rugs as I think they are beautiful works of art, but I wasn't planning on buying the most expensive souvenir of my life this day.  Once we chose our rug, I signed my name on it so once it would be delivered to our home in Mumbai I would know it was my rug!  The rug is now home and in Noé and Ali's room.  It is beautiful, but I have major guilt as the money used to purchase it could have been a semester's tuition at BYU for one of our kids, gulp.

Ugrasen Ki Baoli

Our next stop was to Ugrasen ki Baoli.

It was down a side-street, through this narrow entry.

I was not expecting this when we went through.

The Ugrasen ki Baoli, is an ancient step well.  It's 180 feet long and 45 feet wide, with 108 steps.    

It was rebuilt about 600 years ago, but is possibly a thousand years old.

Our tour guide (the man standing behind the kids) told us it was 12,000 years old and built by the grandfather of Vishnu.

Gandhi Memorial

The Gyarah Murti Monument is a sculpture depicting the famous Salt March led by Mahatma Gandhi in 1930 against oppressive salt taxes imposed by the British regime.
It is near the India Gate and we were able to get this shot from our van.

We visited the Raj Ghat, a memorial built to Gandhi where he was cremated in 1948, the day after his assassination.

These lovely flower "postcards" wishing everyone a happy new year were all throughout the city.

Gotta love this photo bomber joining our family :).

The Jama Masjid (and Red Fort)

Jama Masjid literally means Friday Mosque, and figuratively it means God's Mosque, so there are several Jama Masjid's in India.  This Jama Masjid in Delhi is one of the largest mosques in India and was built in 1656 by the fifth Mughal emperor, Shah Jahan (who also built the Taj Mahal).  

Lovely minaret pointing to heaven.

Many pigeons were taking a break on this pretty dome.

The mosque was on one side of the square with gates on the other three sides.  These arched colonnades surrounded the square. 

Each corner had another little dome.

A detailed shot of one of the gates.

Words from the Quran.

I was surprised that there were no "rooms" inside, just hallways for people to kneel in prayer and worship God.  Now I know mosque actually means to prostrate oneself before Allah.  Makes sense.  If you look at the floor you can see inlaid rectangles under the carpets, I wonder if during their formal services each person gets one rectangle to pray in?  A man took our camera from us and took a few pictures of us.

The top of one of the many alcoves that point towards Mecca.

With us standing inside, you can see how big they are.

Hiram was being a turkey and refused to look at the camera.  Poor Ali, hard as I try always has her hair in her face (but I will not cut bangs, ha ha!).  Notice my dress/robe.  All of us Western women had to wear them to enter, but our hair didn't have to be covered.  We gave the man some money when he returned our camera, and instead of saying thank you he asked for more.  I've learned that's the way of beggars here.  They never say thank you, they always ask for more instead.  It gets exhausting, sigh.

Since this building is completely open to outside, I was also surprised to see chandeliers, but they were so pretty.

The central alcove or mihrab.

Out in the square was this reflecting pool.  A woman beside us was scooping water up in her hand and wiping her face with it.  I don't know if it is like a holy water?

The white thing in the front is an altar and I wonder if the Quran is read from there on Fridays?

EVERY place we went Ali was a celebrity and many people wanted to take their picture with her.  There were 7 different groups here alone that did.  Sometimes the other kids would be asked for their pictures too, but mainly Ali.  This shot captures how she felt about it.  She does NOT want to be famous when she grows up, she would rather do without the fans. 

On the wall opposite the masjid you can see "little Pakistan" below.  Our guide told us there are over 100 shops down there and you have to be Muslim to own one.  He said there is now more Muslims in India than in Pakistan.  India is a peaceful nation, but it has hard feelings with Pakistan and probably always will.  Mumbai was attacked by terrorists from Pakistan in 2008 and we have met people that were at the Taj hotel when it was bombed and they shared horrific stories that happened.  I believe religion is to teach us to be closer to God and man, I do not believe extremists to be true followers of religion, because it is about love not hate.

More of the street stalls, I feel like we're home in Mumbai.

Further out you can see the Red Fort in the distance.

Unfortunately for us, the Red Fort is closed on Mondays for renovations so we weren't able to tour it as planned.  (That's okay our tour guide took us on his own tour instead of sticking to our itinerary.  We also missed the Laxmi Narayan Temple, Humayun's Tomb, Qutub Minar Complex, and the Dances of India show.)

The Red Fort was built in 1648 also by Shah Jahan.  It served as the Mughal capital until 1845 when they were defeated by the British.  The Prime Minister gives his Independence Day speech from here now.

As we were leaving I had to take one last picture of this massive door.  I love detail and this place was full of many lovely ones!

Sunday, January 15, 2017

Golden Triangle

Our Christmas present to our kids for 2016 was a trip to kick off the new year 2017!  On New Year's Eve we stayed up until midnight watching The Sound of Music, then on New Year's Day we left for our trip.  The Golden Triangle of India is Delhi, Agra, and Jaipur.  We also got a bonus and were able to visit Fatehpur Sikri as well.  I'll do a post for each place we visited.  As all of our trips with our kids (vacations and trips are different, ha ha!) we were exhausted by the end of it, but we had a blast!

Friday, January 13, 2017

Today is part of Eternity

Wow, TEN years of our family's adventures are recorded on this blog now!  I have always enjoyed journaling and photography, so this has been a great creative outlet for me and its purpose is two-fold as it also leaves a record for friends and family to enjoy now and in the future.  I do need to get to work on making each year into a blurb book though (I've only made them for 2007 and 2008 so far, yikes!), but soon enough all of my kids will be in school and I'll have a bit more time for that.


With the new year *TWO THOUSAND SEVENTEEN* (say what?), I've been reflecting on some SMART goals for this year.

For the most part, I just want to keep on doing what we're doing.  Our daily life is busy!  Len has to travel often for work; Kaleb's in Concert and Jazz band, the Acorn service club, and he signed up to go on the Art trip to Chennai in February; Noe's in Dance Club, the Acorn club, and also signed up for the Art trip, and as part of her Drama class is auditioning for the Spring musical- so we'll see if that gets added to her activities; Gavin's in Engineering, Taekwondo, and we're waiting to see which Studio class he'll get; Teague's in Gymnastics and Art.  Hiram's busy enough just being in pre-kindergarten and Ali's busy at home.  I would like to take the Bollywood Moms Dance class, but I'm waiting for the details to see if it will fit into our schedule.

For the past 4 out of 5 weeks (we took the week of our vacation off), Len and I have been getting up at 5:00 and exercising together.  I want to continue doing this.  I would like to lose 25-30 pounds this year.  If I just lose a half a pound a week, I'll reach my goal.  Food is the biggest factor when it comes to my weight loss and food is really challenging here.  I'm trying to focus on listening to my body.  I want to eat when I'm hungry so I don't deprive myself that later leads to a binge, and I want to stop eating when I'm full.  I'm working on portion control and really listening to my body.  I've lost about 17 pounds since we've been in India and I hope I can continue to lose instead of plateau.

Our family scripture study has always been a roller coaster.  At some periods we're doing great, then something happens to get us out of our routine and it's hard to get going again.  In December we did our 24 days of Christmas book in the morning for the second year in a row and it worked much better than doing it in the evenings.  We kept our momentum going after Christmas ended, and each morning after we exercise we wake the kids up for a daily hymn, prayer, and scripture story.  We also have weekly FHE and attend church every week that we can.  I want us to get better at evening family prayers and encouraging our kids to have their own personal prayers regularly.

I love having dates with my honey, one-on-one dates with the kids, and family dates.  However, this year we're going to take a break from the more rigid schedule.  As I mentioned, our lives are pretty hectic so we're going to work in natural outings as they come up.  (I am looking forward to Len's and my date next week to see the tap dancer Jason Samuels Smith team up with Indian dancers and percussionists for an  evening of Rhythm Rewritten.)

One thing we need to work on is CHORES!  Our house goes from clean to disaster in about 10 seconds flat.  I can't clean up after 8 people by myself, or that is all I would be doing.  I need to make up daily and individual charts to keep us all on track better.

I want to read a novel each month, work on the craft projects I've been carrying around with me for years (decades?), but I want to be prepared every day to serve others.  I can get overwhelmed in this department because there are so many here that are lacking the basic comforts of life.  Then it's easy for me to play ostrich to cope with all the cognitive overload I receive.  I want to strive to be in-tune with the Spirit to help when I can.  I also want to remember that right now the best place for me to serve is within the walls of my own home.

We have some exciting milestones this year.  Teague will be turning 8 and getting baptized.  Len and I will celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary and we are hoping to take a trip to Hawaii to attend the Laie Hawaii Temple and the Polynesian Cultural Center.  We also want to visit all 3 of our extended families as we haven't done that since 2014.  I hope we can get pictures with our 3 fams, and of course we'll be taking our annual family photo too.

I recently came across these wise words from Rob Hill Sr.:
"My goal is to build a life I don't need a vacation from."
Amen to that!

Sleeping Beauty plays dress-up

Ali slept in her crib fine when she was a baby, but once she became a toddler she would climb out even when she was exhausted just because she could.  We took the side off her crib and made it a daybed, but still most mornings when we would go in to wake Noé up for school we'd find Ali asleep on the floor next to her bed.  When we moved to India she got a big girl bed and we thought she'd sleep well in it.  Ha ha, we were wrong!  Now she takes turns sleeping in her bed, the couch in the playroom, and the couches in the living room.  When we first moved here we found her in some unusual places though!  Here I can't believe she's sleeping with her big ol' bubblegum necklace on.

Ali loves to play dress-up and she went through a phase where she wanted to wear her hair flowers or big bows daily.

Sleeping on the living room floor again.  I know it has a carpet, but still it's marble tile!

She doesn't have any accessories in this pic, but I love her sweet smile and must say that she lucked out in the long hair department.  She got her sister's good hair, but neither of my girls inherited that from me!

One day after we went swimming we were busy making lunch.  When it came time to eat we couldn't find Ali- she put herself to bed for a little nap.

Princess crown- check
Purse- check
Nail polish- check
Pink tutu- check
You can't see them in this picture, but purple plastic high heels- check
(Her blue tutu is my favorite, and she always asks for make-ups which for her is only chapstick, ha ha!)

Our first week in Mumbai I woke up in the middle of the night thinking I heard one of my babies crying.  I checked in each room and found 5 of the 6 all sleeping soundly.  Ali was missing though!  I ran through the apartment and couldn't find her anywhere!  I was worried she might have opened our front door and wandered out into the night.  I raced to wake up Len and have him help me look for her.  He found her- completely underneath her bed!  I didn't get a picture of that as it was a bit traumatic for me.  After that we discovered the lock on our door that goes into the ceiling, so now every night that is used to give me peace of mind.  And sometimes Ali makes it easy to find her, like here where's she's sleeping on the couch!

She loves her purple Minnie Mouse glasses!

Underneath the coffee table, because who doesn't think that's a comfy spot to sleep!

This dress used to be Noé's and I loved it so much I saved it for her to keep.  I'm so glad Ali can wear it now, but I'm also sad that Noé is so grown up.

One day I was cleaning the bathrooms and changing the sheets.  Ali grabbed one of the bathroom rugs and pillows and made a nice little spot to take a nap.

I love this silly-sleeping, dress-up beauty!